For good personal relationships, Ilchi Lee often says as followings.
‘Three things are very important for maintaining good personal relationships. The first is that we must know how to say, “Help me!” Saying that you don’t know what you don’t know is a very beautiful thing. Not knowing is never something to be ashamed of. More shameful is quietly pretending to know what you don’t know. We can continue to grow and develop when we admit not knowing what we don’t know. Those who know how to open themselves and speak honestly can help others. They can give help because they have received help.
The second is that we must be able to say, “Thank you!” If we don’t say this even when we have received help, that relationship cannot improve. Communication is really important. Our brains are connected with those of everyone else. Our brains become very beautiful and good when we have good relationships. We become lonely and solitary when those relationships have been interrupted.
The third is that we must know how to day, “I am sorry.” If we use this well then our relationships will improve a great deal. Anyone can make a mistake and get help. There are times when we must say, “I am sorry,” because of this. Unlesss we say this with the proper timing, our relationships become more distant, and we cannot know the other person’s heart unless we express ourselves this way.
Help me. Thank you. I’m sorry. We can gather to ourselves the energy that surrounds us only if we say these things confidently and often. These are three techiques that enable us to maintain good personal relationships.’
You can start right away. In a state of meditation, imagine your true self (or your soul) in front of you, then say it honestly & sincerely.
I’m sorry
Help me
Thank you
You can hear a voice of understanding coming from your deep inside. Let’s recover a Good relationship with our true self. Good luck to you~
